John Urschel: The 300 Pound Mathematician Who Hits People For a Living 170
HughPickens.com writes: Kate Murphy writes at NYT about mathematician John Urschel whose latest contribution to the mathematical realm was a paper for the Journal of Computational Mathematics with the impressively esoteric title, "A Cascadic Multigrid Algorithm for Computing the Fiedler Vector of Graph Laplacians." "Believe me, I am aware that terms such as multigrid, Fiedler, and vector are not words that people use in their daily lives," says Urshel.
But as an offensive guard for the Baltimore Ravens, John Urschel regularly goes head to head with the top defensive players in the NFL and does his best to keep quarterback Joe Flacco out of harm's way. "I play because I love the game. I love hitting people," Urshel writes. "There's a rush you get when you go out on the field, lay everything on the line and physically dominate the player across from you. This is a feeling I'm (for lack of a better word) addicted to, and I'm hard-pressed to find anywhere else."
Urschel acknowledges that he has faced questions from NFL officials, journalists, fans and fellow mathematicians about why he runs the risk of potential brain injury from playing football when he has "a bright career ahead of me in mathematics" but doesn't feel able to quit. "When I go too long without physical contact I'm not a pleasant person to be around. This is why, every offseason, I train in kickboxing and wrestling in addition to my lifting, running and position-specific drill work."
But as an offensive guard for the Baltimore Ravens, John Urschel regularly goes head to head with the top defensive players in the NFL and does his best to keep quarterback Joe Flacco out of harm's way. "I play because I love the game. I love hitting people," Urshel writes. "There's a rush you get when you go out on the field, lay everything on the line and physically dominate the player across from you. This is a feeling I'm (for lack of a better word) addicted to, and I'm hard-pressed to find anywhere else."
Urschel acknowledges that he has faced questions from NFL officials, journalists, fans and fellow mathematicians about why he runs the risk of potential brain injury from playing football when he has "a bright career ahead of me in mathematics" but doesn't feel able to quit. "When I go too long without physical contact I'm not a pleasant person to be around. This is why, every offseason, I train in kickboxing and wrestling in addition to my lifting, running and position-specific drill work."
Keeps the brain sharp (Score:5, Insightful)
I prefer cycling and climbing myself; not really into hitting things/being hit. Sitting in a chair all the time isn't healthy.
Re: (Score:1)
I prefer cycling and climbing myself; not really into hitting things/being hit.
Both cycling and climbing are great physical exercices, plus, as any physical exercice, good for the mind and soul also, but those two even more because they are outdoors; usualy cycling and climbing is something you (can) do alone, something "hitting things/being hit" is not - the "hitting things/being hit" kind of physical exercices are great also because they are more of a "game", plus a way to socialize in a more natural way.
Sitting in a chair all the time isn't healthy.
You are absolutely right, thank you for reminding me to go to the gym! I am a m
Re: (Score:3)
the "hitting things/being hit" kind of physical exercices are [...] a way to socialize in a more natural way.
Don't socialize me, bro! Only in America...
Don't repulse me bro, you're gonna get hurt! By the way... i am Greek!
The "hitting things/being hit" kind of physical exercices are a GREAT way to socialize in a more natural way (o.k., all in this "game" should better agree before starting, i forgot to mention it in my first comment!) since -not mentioning the other benefits of exercising in this way- physical contact of the non-erotic nature is very healthy for the body, mind, and soul.
For example, as a Greek i enjoy wrestling (the real one, free/Greek-R
Re: (Score:2)
Some of us are aware of US Wrestling - Burroughs, Ramos, Ruth...old school brothers like the Schultzs and Banachs...
I like how you say they're "good enough" to compete internationally. In the US, it's sometimes hard to remember that we aren't automatically the best at everything. But it's great to watch such great competitors.
You are so right about how it helps socialize... we hear in the news about US/Iran/Cuba/Russia, etc. politics, but you wouldn't know it watching the teams wrestle. Fierce competitors o
Re: (Score:1)
Some of us are aware of US Wrestling - Burroughs, Ramos, Ruth...old school brothers like the Schultzs and Banachs...
I am really glad because i love wrestling (not only because i am Greek), and i like many U.S.A. wrestlers (e.g "old school brothers like the Schultzs and Banachs"!).
I like how you say they're "good enough" to compete internationally. In the US, it's sometimes hard to remember that we aren't automatically the best at everything. But it's great to watch such great competitors.
Well, we Greeks suck at baseball! And i mean TOTALY SUCK, not like U.S.A. does in wresting, because U.S.A. wresting has some great wrestlers - not so many as someone would expected based on its population, but i understand the lack of tradition. But think how a Greek like me feels when some Iranian (Persian) defeats some of our guys!
You are so right about how it helps socialize... we hear in the news about US/Iran/Cuba/Russia, etc. politics, but you wouldn't know it watching the teams wrestle. Fierce competitors on the mat, respectful off.
I am a (Chri
Re: Keeps the brain sharp (Score:1)
Re: (Score:1)
"When I go too long without physical contact I'm not a pleasant person to be around. This is why, every offseason, I train in kickboxing and wrestling in addition to my lifting, running and position-specific drill work."
The mathematician-football player sounds like a brutish person worthy of imprisonment for the safety of society. He is a time-bomb awaiting to detonate.
Re: (Score:2)
Re: (Score:2)
He said if he goes too long without physically assaulting people he becomes "not a pleasant person to be around". Most people aren't like that, and those that are don't usually admit it.
Re: (Score:1)
He said if he goes too long without physically assaulting people he becomes "not a pleasant person to be around". Most people aren't like that, and those that are don't usually admit it.
I think you are reading too much into his statement. He enjoys physical sports. If he can't do what he enjoys, he's cranky. Who isn't cranky when they don't get to participate in their chosen hobby/pastime over a long stretch? Maybe there are people who have no interests outside of work and are happy to drudge away with no break; I'm certainly not one of them. I have to look away from time to time.
Re: (Score:1)
That's not what he said.
When football season if over plain old football training doesn't provide enough physical violence to make him pleasant so he adds kickboxing and wrestling where you do get to physically assault people in training.
He didn't say he "enjoys physical sports" he said he needs to be able to perform physical violence on other people in order to not be "not a pleasant person to be around".
Sure maybe he just worded things badly - then again he's supposed to be smart in a field of logic and pr
Re: (Score:2)
There's no issue with his choice of sports (aside from why would you risk the brain damage - but that's an different topic). I also do bjj - the wussiest of the "combat" sports - two people rolling on the ground hugging :)
Of course when you think about it when I train bjj I'm really trying to get another human being into a position in which they will die if I don't choose to let go - let's ignore all the other people around who will *make* me let go if I'm actually psychotic.
I don't think there is a big de
Re: (Score:2)
no, he said he likes to assault people or he gets grumpy, Jock sniff much?
Get back into the locker, nerd. No one said you could come out yet.
Re: (Score:2)
Surprising to those unfamiliar with mathematicians (Score:5, Informative)
For the rest of us no surprise at all. 40 years ago I studied graph theory with a professor that was also a competitive karate fighter.
Re:Surprising to those unfamiliar with mathematici (Score:5, Interesting)
The fact that not all math professors are wholly sedentary, feeble, and bookish isn't a huge surprise; but seeing one doing something well known to have a high risk of chewing up his brain and spitting it out, that is somewhat curious. I would have expected him to choose something with more below-the-neck contact. Soft tissue damage and broken bones are something that humans cope with fairly well, and Team Medicine knows a lot about dealing with, if natural recuperation isn't cutting it; but brains are touchier; and there is a lot less we can do for you if yours isn't working so well.
Re: (Score:2)
Not everyone can run the probabilities in their head...oh wait...
Re: (Score:3)
Not anymore they can't...
Re: (Score:2)
Players on the line are more likely to have their knees worn out. Carrying t
Re: (Score:2)
Re: (Score:2)
I don't follow football a lot, but my understanding is that players on the offensive line are a lot less susceptible to this problem. They don't tend to tack other players or collide at high speeds. They're almost right next to the opposing player who needs to be stopped and usually just end up grappling with this person. Contrast this with other positions where the player needs to tackle someone or ends up getting tackled a lot.
Players on the front lines have incredibly high rates of TBI because one of the common methods used by both the O and D lines is to whack the opposing player in the head to disorient them. TBI is greatly influenced by the frequent whacks to the head as well as using one's own head as a weapon - one doesn't need to be knocked out to have a concussion or subject to TBI.
Discrimination (Score:5, Insightful)
Urschel acknowledges that he has faced questions from NFL officials, journalists, fans and fellow mathematicians about why he runs the risk of potential brain injury from playing football when he has "a bright career ahead of me in mathematics"
Funny how the NFL officials only care about potential brain injury on players who are good at math. If the risk of brain injury was truly that high, nobody should be playing it.
Re:Discrimination (Score:4, Insightful)
Urschel acknowledges that he has faced questions from NFL officials, journalists, fans and fellow mathematicians about why he runs the risk of potential brain injury from playing football when he has "a bright career ahead of me in mathematics"
Funny how the NFL officials only care about potential brain injury on players who are good at math. If the risk of brain injury was truly that high, nobody should be playing it.
In fact you could argue that Urschel is in a position where he can evaluate the probability of potential risks and impacts and make an informed decision on whether to play whereas many players can't.
Re: (Score:2)
Since he has no medical training - why would you even think he's in a better position to do so? Being able to evaluate the mathematical probability of injury != being able to evaluate the medical risks. Two entirely different problem domains.
And that's setting aside the issue that we don't really have the dat
Re:Discrimination (Score:5, Insightful)
I think the answer here is that an NFL career pays rather better than an Academic one. If he can retire with his faculties intact, he won't have to chase grants and prizes to be comfortable.
Re: (Score:3)
I think the answer here is that an NFL career pays rather better than an Academic one. If he can retire with his faculties intact, he won't have to chase grants and prizes to be comfortable.
This. Given that he's a lineman he's actually got a pretty good chance of avoiding CTE. Linemen collide on every play, but they do it at relatively low speed, since they only have about two feet in which to accelerate. If he's cautious with his head, careful with his money, and keeps his career short, Urschel has a good chance of walking away intact and independently wealthy after four or five years.
Re: (Score:1)
Re: (Score:2)
Re:Discrimination (Score:5, Interesting)
If he ends up a pitiful sad-sack, markedly damaged, the story pretty much writes itself: "From published mathematician with lots of papers you don't even understand the title of, to broken man, thanks to football!". In players without any baseline, or where the baseline is roughly 'normal to sub-normal intelligence, no non-football skills of significant note', there may still end up being a sad story of cognitive effects(it doesn't just knock off IQ points, depression, emotional disregulation, and other quality-of-life ruiners are pretty typical); but the story won't be nice and clear cut in the same way.
Re: (Score:2)
Fortunately, hes playing the right position if he wants the least head trauma possible. Of all the positions, lineman have to deal with the smallest velocity vectors of any (well, besides kickers). Concussions are far more common among 'skill positions' where players are frequently moving at high speeds and a target/are targeting for tackling. Offensive Lineman just push players or prevent players from advancing...kinda like a Sumo wrestler.
Re: (Score:2)
Fortunately, hes playing the right position if he wants the least head trauma possible. Of all the positions, lineman have to deal with the smallest velocity vectors of any (well, besides kickers). Concussions are far more common among 'skill positions' where players are frequently moving at high speeds and a target/are targeting for tackling. Offensive Lineman just push players or prevent players from advancing...kinda like a Sumo wrestler.
Then there is that mass thing. A quarterback at 240 pounds being nailed by a steroid fueled tackle who is nearing 400 pounds.
Math and physics, all rolled into one game.
Re: (Score:2)
Therapy through sports (Score:4, Insightful)
Really nobody should be playing football.
Curiously this is almost always said by people who never played themselves. Tell me, what exactly is the problem with consenting adults playing a potentially violent game where there is some chance of getting hurt? How is it worse that an X-Games skateboarder who knows he's going to injure himself at some point? Or a sailor who knows they might drown?
Brain injuries are just one of the numerous medical problems caused by football
The only real problem I see with that is that children aren't adequately protected by the rules of the game when they play it. If an adult wants to take the risk of injury then that's their problem. They can reasonably be expected to understand the potential consequences of their participation. Children, not so much and incidence of concussions and certain other injuries in american football are far higher than for most other sports played by youths.
One might consider why one has hostile moods in the first place rather than trying to control that demon by feeding it.
One of the demonstrated best ways to deal with hostile or other moods is through exercise and sports. I cannot think of a more appropriate outlet or better treatment for such issues. I would much rather someone work out their issues on the playing field than in some less appropriate venue.
Re: (Score:2)
Really nobody should be playing football.
Curiously this is almost always said by people who never played themselves. Tell me, what exactly is the problem with consenting adults playing a potentially violent game where there is some chance of getting hurt? How is it worse that an X-Games skateboarder who knows he's going to injure himself at some point? Or a sailor who knows they might drown?
You make very good points, though I read the GP as pointing out the apparent irrationality (to some) of playing football, rather than trying to outlaw it or something. It's one thing to make an argument that "no one should do X because X is bad, and thus X doesn't make sense"; it's slightly different to argue that "no one should ever be allowed to do X."
In any case, whatever the GP meant, I certainly don't have a problem with consenting adults doing whatever -- particularly if they are informed about the
Re: (Score:2)
Source: http://www-personal.umich.edu/... [umich.edu]
Re: (Score:2)
Funny how the NFL officials only care about potential brain injury on players who are good at math. If the risk of brain injury was truly that high, nobody should be playing it.
I don't think that is their intent. Most of the players in the NFL do not have a second career to fall back on once their playing days are done, let alone one that should pay them a decent salary. The players themselves know the risks now but the alure of making millions of dollars for a few years of harsh physical punishment is seen as a worthy risk.
Co-authors (Score:1)
Kinda lame not mentioning the three co-authors that worked with him on that paper.
Re: (Score:2)
The whole story is lame, because it's not about the paper or his research but about his leisure time activities.
Who cares? How about a story about Joe the Plumber's sports at the local bowling center instead?
Re: (Score:2)
You have it backwards. The NFL is his job. Mathematics is his leisure-time activity. Personally, I think that unusual enough to warrant an article.
Muscles and brains are not mutually exclusive (Score:3)
So I don't understand why this seems to come as a surprise to a lot of people. We're physical *and* mental beings, you need to exercise both aspects to be truly healthy IMO. However there do seem to be far to many people who focus on one to the exclusion of the other (and even more who don't focus on either but thats for another argument).
Re: (Score:1)
It is quite rare for someone to be capable of working at a professional level in sports and academics at the same time.
Not really that rare (Score:2)
It is quite rare for someone to be capable of working at a professional level in sports and academics at the same time.
Not as rare as you might think. I've been in the sport of wrestling for 35 years and D1 college wrestling has world class talent in the sport. Right now the toughest wrestling conference in the country is the Big10. The second toughest conference is the Eastern Intercollegiate Wrestling Association (EIWA) which consists primarily of the Ivy League and Patriot League schools - schools like Lehigh, Cornell, Princeton, Harvard, American, Army, Navy, Columbia and the EIWA routinely has several of the top ten
Re: (Score:2)
Not to take anything away from your achievements (I certainly couldn't compete in any sport at that level), but college wrestling isn't exactly "professional-level sports". Your athletic activity was still a part-time one while focusing on your education... The professional athletes, whose full-time job is to play sports, are exceedingl
Yes they are pro level athletes (Score:2)
Not to take anything away from your achievements (I certainly couldn't compete in any sport at that level), but college wrestling isn't exactly "professional-level sports". Your athletic activity was still a part-time one while focusing on your education...
You are quite wrong. Collegiate wrestling very much IS pro level athletics. I've been there and done it and know first hand. It is a full time job on top of your academic load. We're talking 40+ hours a week when in-season. And at a school like Cornell or Lehigh or Northwestern or Stanford they don't cut you any slack in the classroom. While the pay isn't as much as say someone in pro basketball (not even close), the amount of work it requires is very much the same to be at the top of the sport. Furt
Re: (Score:2)
Maybe because one is more satisfying than the other.
Re: (Score:3)
So I don't understand why this seems to come as a surprise to a lot of people.
It goes against the dumb jock/wimpy nerd stereotypes most people have.
You can be both types of people... apk (Score:1, Interesting)
Scholarly & Athletic: I was a lettering NCAA athlete in Lacrosse (violent enough) for LeMoyne College (an often division or national champ @ division II level) + good enough to get room + board partial combined academic/athletic scholarship for it.
(I was pretty much "straight A's" elementary school to highschool - senior year I didn't give a hoot since I had my credits done by junior year & I went to work after going for 1 class most of senior year only in the a.m. then off to work during the rest o
Re: (Score:2)
You can be *ANYTHING* you want in this life, both the mind & body are "plastic" responding to the needs you have you place on them...
*There are, no limits: Only the limits you put on yourself...
Right, so Stephen Hawking could have out-run Usain bolt if he'd just applied himself properly?
Re: (Score:2)
Eh, if you're on an internet forum and you're really that concerned about people who downmod you, maybe you should take up martial arts yourself.
Re: (Score:2)
That wasn't me, but it is nice to see you finally admitting that you got the card--it only took you a year or so.
Re: (Score:2)
Dude, you have no anonymity. With less than five minutes of my spare time, I know your entire name: Alexander Peter Kawalski, hence your nickname of APK. You are a Verizon customer, and you currently live in Syracuse, New York. You can be found at 903 East Division Street, Apartment #1, bottom floor. The house is a bit of a dingy gray/blue color, you have a few wooden chairs out back in your poor excuse for a yard, and there's a wooden power pole directly by your house.
Post AC all you want, but it's not
Tennis and Computing (Score:2, Interesting)
two years ago i took up tennis at the recommendation of a friend. before that i'd done tai ji, full-contact karate (shin kyu-kshin), long-distance skating (86 miles athens-to-atlanta 1999, 65 miles new york park 1999, 26 miles rotterdam 2006) and yoga (ashtanga and T.M Asanas). it's a big list of different physical activities, which have the following things in common:
* complex coordinated movement
* requiring or recommending very deep breathing (skating especially)
* very long and regular practice
the reaso
Re: (Score:2)
300 Pound Nerd? (Score:5, Funny)
Ha, that's nothing!
I'm with him (Score:5, Interesting)
"There's a rush you get when you go out on the field, lay everything on the line and physically dominate the player across from you. This is a feeling I'm (for lack of a better word) addicted to, and I'm hard-pressed to find anywhere else."
This is your indication that you are talking with an adrenaline/endorphin junkie.
I play futbol (soccer) defense, and can completely understand this. Its an otherwise thankless position. If you do it well pretty much nobody but your goalie notices, and if you mess up everyone hates on you. So why do it? Honestly, I believe I got addicted to the adrenaline/endorphin hit. I don't even feel right until I've had my first hard tackle. It is next to impossible to get that fix in real life, but a good physical confrontation will bring it right up. I once hadn't got there yet, and then a (clearly juicing) big forward knocked me to the ground while the ref wasn't looking. I got up laughing and thanking him. Not quite the reaction he was expecting.
I don't know how many here have seen Clint Eastwood's Every Which Way but Loose, but the main character Philo clearly had this as well. It was a major plot point that he had to fight, and had an unusual thing where he got better the more he was hit. Classic Endorphin/Adrenaline junkie.
I think it ought to go without saying that as a mathematician Urschel isn't going to get his body chemical "hit" in his daily life. I've certainly found that to be the case as a software engineer.
Dishonest headlines as usual (Score:1)
The Ravens are a professional football team. The majority of his income almost certainly comes from football, not math.
He is therefore a footballier first and a mathmaticiary second, not the other way around.
Re: (Score:2)
Re: (Score:2)
You are missing (or conveniently ignoring) the part where I said he'd be lucky to keep at it that long. In point of fact, the *average* NFL career is a smidge over 3 years. A bit more for players who are good enough to make active rosters, less for players who aren't kickers or QB's. There are a lot of variables. As there are with salary.
The point here is that NFL careers aren't that long, and the pay for people who aren't superstars only makes up for that if the alternative is something like a service/me
Re: (Score:2)
Probably the case. But as I told another poster, it would be even smarter to keep the math career as active as possible in the meantime, as that gets the first few years of lowest pay and prestige out of the way, and gives him that extra 3-5 years at the high-paying end of the career as gravy.
Chess boxing (Score:3)
I bet this guy will kick ass at chess boxing [wikipedia.org] when his NFL days are over.
Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (BJJ) would be a lot less risk (Score:4, Informative)
I started learning Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (BJJ) about 6 years ago. One of the first things I noticed was that there seemed to be a higher percentage of technical/professional than I found in other athletic activities I had done in the past. Yes the UFC has made BJJ a bit trendy but it is more than that. BJJ is great for a smaller and weaker person because it effectively demonstrates technique over strength from day one.
Re: (Score:2)
I started learning Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu (BJJ) about 6 years ago. One of the first things I noticed was that there seemed to be a higher percentage of technical/professional than I found in other athletic activities I had done in the past. Yes the UFC has made BJJ a bit trendy but it is more than that. BJJ is great for a smaller and weaker person because it effectively demonstrates technique over strength from day one.
^^^ this. Pretty much almost every person I've seen in BJJ (or Judo) has a technical/professional job. Training is not cheap, and it requires a certain type of income to keep it up. It is also worth noting a significant number of UFC fighters wrestle in college.
Re: (Score:2)
Judo is pretty cheap. One can frequently find classes at the local YMCA for $10-20/month. BJJ, on the other hand, is very proud of what they offer. If you can find lessons for $100/month or less, good luck!
So what does it mean? (Score:1)
great article (Score:2)
First, a guard is possibly the least likely player on the field to get a concussion. Sure they hit hard every play, but it's almost more like wrestling than anything, and almost never the high speed impacts that result in concussion.
Second, I think it's great for young men to hear this. We've spent pretty nearly the last 20 years identifying "male" behaviors as pathologies that need to be circumscribed, if not outright "corrected", and wonder why young men are checking out. There is a joy to physical hea
Doesn't surprise me (Score:5, Interesting)
I know it's just an anecdote, but in my personal experience, at the higher levels of football (college and up: I played in college and have known several people that have moved on to the NFL) it takes a certain amount of intelligence to succeed, simply because the plays and the calls get more complicated. And while the stereotype of offensive linemen is that they are big and dumb, from what I have seen is that they actually tend to be smarter than other players. On my college team at least 2-3 out of our teams academic top 10 every year were offensive linemen, and a surprising number of our offensive linemen went on to graduate school, whether at our school or others. Of course, I may be slightly biased as I was an offensive lineman, I was one of those that went to grad school, and I was on my team's academic top 10 all 4 years.
Another interesting observation I have made is that certain personalities or characteristics seem to congregate to certain positions. For example, if you were to walk through a college or NFL locker room, more often than not you can tell if a player is offense or defense based solely on the state of their locker: offensive players tend to have cleaner, more organized lockers while defensive players tend to have messier, jumbled lockers.
Not surprised (Score:3)
In my first year of college I had one math professor who was a former pro football player and another who was a former pro hockey player. Both were excellent professors.
So Basically... (Score:2)
...he's the Incredible Hulk?
We're making him angry. We wouldn't like him when he's angry.
That can't be right (Score:2)
Re: (Score:1)
I'm not sure which is worse: That someone might read this and think this you're smart or insightful for saying it, or that you might think yourself smart or insightful for saying it.
Re: (Score:1)
Plenty of people have an aggressive streak to match their drive. It's better to get it out through exercise (e.g., contact sports, competitive racing) than taking it out on your colleagues/friends/family. Endorphins are great. You should try some.
Re: (Score:1)
If you don't understand the difference between enjoying sports and racing to release endorphins and:
I love hitting people
then there's really no helping you.
Re:Sociopath (Score:4, Interesting)
If you don't understand the difference between enjoying sports and racing to release endorphins and:
I love hitting people
then there's really no helping you.
Nonsense. I've played Ice Hockey for years as a way of getting excercise, stress release, and agression control.
And that works a trick. I was always considered the face of calm rationality at work, the guy that doesn't bother to panic. Assertive but never aggressive. On the ice however, a bit different of a story. I modelled my play after Esa Tikkanen, and Darius Kasparitus, Clowns on the ice that you mess with at you own risk. so I gave and took my fair share of hits.
A hockey player that abuses his wife is pretty rare. We tend to have no agression left after the games. A lot of successful people play that sport, and yes, it is pretty violent. Just like we love it. And yes, we love hitting people within the context of the game. We don't need your help.
Re: (Score:2)
That's nonsense. You can have a violent sport like boxing and still have the players be abusers. Plus read this [si.com].
Even bigger problem though is that is a misunderstanding of domestic violence and why it happens. It isn't "men have aggression and need to get it out". More like a mix of cultural (shitty views of women as "less than" men, toxic attitudes towards relationships especially marriage, etc) and individual factors. Why not read up on it [wikipedia.org] a bit?
Re: (Score:2)
That's nonsense. You can have a violent sport like boxing and still have the players be abusers.
DIdn't say you couldn't. Can you give me the quote where I sad that spousal abuse is nonexistent in Ice hockey players? And why are you so sexist, not including women, as referenced below. That's misogynistic, you know.Women do play Ice hockey, and women do get into fights and body checking.
Even bigger problem though is that is a misunderstanding of domestic violence and why it happens. It isn't "men have aggression and need to get it out". More like a mix of cultural (shitty views of women as "less than" men, toxic attitudes towards relationships especially marriage, etc) and individual factors. Why not read up on it [wikipedia.org] a bit?
Since you have taken this down the men are pigs route, which by the way is a very small part of what I was saying. I knew no guy on any tram I played on or any league I platyed in who was not really mellow off the ice.
Re: (Score:2)
You're putting words in my mouth, I did not say men are pigs. I also didn't say you said it is nonexistent. You did however HEAVILY imply it is rare BECAUSE of how aggressive ice hockey is. Which
Re: (Score:2)
Wow, you took OP's comment and went off the fucking rails MRA style. Also, why the fuck would some stranger on the internet look shit up for you? Find your own damn quotes you lazy idiot.
So what you are saying is that you can make any old thing up, and I have to prove I didn't say it? If someone wants to say I said something I didn't - it's up to them to prove it - not me to prove I didn't say it. Derpy. No wonder you are an anonymous coward. Because logic like that is so stupid, you should be embarased to admit you think that way. That at least was a smart move.
Re: (Score:2)
I doubt he's really AC more like ohnocitizen in disguise
I'm suspecting the same. And yes, I think he can make any old thing up and expect people to take it as gospel truth.
Re: (Score:2)
Re: (Score:2)
Re: (Score:2)
Re: (Score:2)
and agression control.
Do you go out on the field specifically to try and hit someone, or do you take your aggression out on the game.
There's one thing about smacking a puck and racing around, it's quite another to feel the need to smash someone just to act like a person.
That is what defines sociopaths.
Re: (Score:2)
and agression control.
Do you go out on the field specifically to try and hit someone, or do you take your aggression out on the game.
There's one thing about smacking a puck and racing around, it's quite another to feel the need to smash someone just to act like a person.
That is what defines sociopaths.
I never think about it, so I suppose I don't play specifically to hit people. I play because its one metric ton of fun. The game is really fast - insanely fast at the NHL level - and collisions are simply going to happen, even in the "non-checking" leagues.
The last thing I want to do is injure someone. But yeah, knocking someone on their butt is fun. And yeah, it does tend to take the edge off a hard day. Just the intense activity relaxes you, (I tend to sweat off ten pounds every game) but the hitting d
Re: (Score:2)
I fully agree. There's nothing sociopathic about playing contact sports. I was just originally calling out the player on his first comments, that he's not a nice person to be around when he's not hitting people.
Whoever marked that troll didn't actually think about what I wrote, or look up the term in the dictionary. For the record I'm not a nice person to be around either when I don't have my weekly dose of endorphin releasing activity (football)
Maybe it was a poor choice of his words, maybe he's actually a
Re: (Score:2)
Pretty much this, been playing hockey (Left D) since I was 5 ish. There's nothing like somebody stepping up to you and then putting them on their ass. Off the ice, I'm easy-going and mild mannered.
Stress relief 101! Nothing takes the edge off a hard day at the office like Hockey. And not like I didn't take my share of bumps.
And the part that some can't understand, except in the case of personality conflict, we'll go out and have a brew or two with the folks after the game. The rough stuff stays on the ice.
Re: (Score:3)
100% correct, actually most of the time, the beer effect is applicable to off-the-ice fist fights as well.
I've never understood this whole fighting is 100% bad mentality. We are animals, the product of evolution. We have plenty of traits still with us that meant the difference between life and death on the Savannah's. For some reason, some people think that these traits (such as aggression) are legacy things that are not needed any more. I'd argue that many of these traits are not only needed, but j
Re: (Score:2)
If you don't understand the difference between a pithy remark and an actual desire to do someone harm, then there's no helping you.
Or are you making the "insightful" claim that all football players are sociopaths?
Re: (Score:2)
Or are you making the "insightful" claim that all football players are sociopaths?
Depends. Are you playing football to play football? Or are you playing football to go out and smash someone into the ground because if you don't get your weekly dose of hulk smash you become depressed?
There is a big difference between playing contact sports to play sports, release tension, get exercise etc, and playing contact sports because it gives you a chance to smash a fellow man into the ground.
Re:Sociopath (Score:5, Interesting)
This just shows that you don't know what the word means. I've know a couple of real sociopaths over a lifetime, and they were mean, manipulative, vindictive arseholes. One thing that they were not, was violent. They preferred to destroy people in more lasting and important ways than a few bruises. The closest everyday concept that mcuttatches the condition is evil.
Most blokes like burning off steam though. Not all of them, some are more shy retiring delicate types such as yourself. But for most men, regardless of whether they end up in the ivory towers of academia or cutting blocks in a yard, physical contact is normal. Success tends to correlate with the ability to control it and project it on demand. That's why we see sports as being a good outlet for it. I've known surprising number of martial artists in academia, they were all very straight forward about why they did it: they like punching things.
Re: (Score:3)
This just shows that you don't know what the word means.
It's a personality disorder depicted by extreme anti-social behaviour. It's actually a quite broad word which describes a very broad range of personality traits.
Somehow being an unpleasant person when you're NOT smashing someone about fits that definition quite nicely regardless of what you *think* it means.
Re: (Score:2, Interesting)
You do realize that most if you go down lists of people who are either confirmed sociopaths or suspected sociopaths, you get a list of serial killers, most CEOs of major corporations, most world leaders, etc. People who like to hit other people aren't typically considered sociopaths. Sociopaths destroy the people around them and society in general as they don't feel the need to conform to social norms and are completely willing to bend those norms and manipulate people to their gain. That's why they tend
Re: (Score:2)
Playing contact sports != mental illness (Score:3)
Thanks for your anecdote, which comprehensively contradicts all other research into abnormal psychology.
You could bother to look up the definition for yourself in any clinical textbook and you'd find that he was largely correct although the term sociopath isn't really used by professionals. Furthermore in both cases the definition has to do with an inability to form emotional attachments or feel empathy towards others. That has NOTHING to do with enjoying rough contact sports. The mere fact that someone enjoys a rough contact sport does not and never did mean that a person has an inability to form emotiona
Re: (Score:2)
Thanks for your anecdote, which comprehensively contradicts all other research into abnormal psychology. A sociopath is just a slightly better adjusted psychopath, and psychopaths are frequently extremely violent.
Why the correlation of someone that plays sports, with psychopaths who kill people?
That certainly escalated fast.
Oh, and if you like hitting people, you're violent. It's sort of the definition of the word. And hitting people is not the same thing as enjoying physical activity or contact.
Such a digital world you live in. But you are wrong. And here's some examples of why. Many women enjoy giving a guy a smack now and then. No malice, no intent to hurt, just sort of I guess you would call it a "love tap". And some times it can sting. They only do this to men they like and know well. My wife does this all the time, usually accompanied with a "smartass" toward me. This is not vi
Re: (Score:2)
Now on to the players who hit each other. We're playing a game, we hit each other. But we're not trying to hurt each other - and the exceptions tend to get tossed from the game. Intent is important.
I think that this is an important distinction to draw attention to. The overwhelming majority of contact sports do not condone the intentional injury of other players. There's a general acceptance that incidental injuries are inevitable, but the same is true for non-contact sports and even solo athletic activities. Even when hitting other people is a part of the sport, doing so recklessly or maliciously is not cool and will end with you being excluded from the game or entire sport.
Re: (Score:2)
Even when hitting other people is a part of the sport, doing so recklessly or maliciously is not cool and will end with you being excluded from the game or entire sport.
Definitely. I was involved in one of those rare cases. A fellow was pissed at me for one reason or another, and took a full downward baseball swing at my lower back with his stick., designed to make it under my padding. Hurt prety good.
That was the involuntary end of his participation in the league.
On the other side, where most players are, I was skating with the puck behind the goal, when another player was messing with me with his stick, like usual, we'll just try to slow the other guy down.
Somethin
Re:Sociopath (Score:5, Insightful)
I'm a neurotic workout fiend. I have been since I was in my late 20s.
Bear in mind, I wasn't an athletic kid. Not because I had no inclinations, I just lacked confidence and being an introvert didn't help matters much.
So I took up martial arts - any kind anyone would teach me - and my husband would tell me the difference was unbelievable. Much better than just trying to run alone or work out in my basement. Apparently, it wasn't just being in shape that was affecting me: it was also the fact that I would interact with people, and once I knew what I was doing, I'd be able to teach newcomers as well. I also slept better at night and lost weight. It's physical AND mental.
I'm not saying all introverts have to do this, but I become intolerable if I spend too long coming home at night just to sit and watch TV until bedtime. Hubby's come to accept that I have to work out at least five days a week, at least two hours a night, in order to maintain this. And that's fine with both of us, but for anyone to assert that I might be a special case hasn't ever taken part in an athletic activity which promotes interaction with other people.
You'd find that people who aren't training to be pros, but work out that much, are probably more common than you think.
Re: (Score:2)
You'd find that people who aren't training to be pros, but work out that much, are probably more common than you think.
yep - count me in. i'm currently up to about the same level of exercise as you - about 2 hours a day: tennis or street-skating. tennis is for my eyes - and the social interaction. street-skating is because i find the explosive (sprinting) nature of tennis is causing huge knots in my arm and leg muscles. without this, i am... yeah, not a nice person either :)
Learn what the word sociopath actually means (Score:3)
The mind of the true sociopath.
Apparently you don't know what the word sociopath [wikihow.com] means. Enjoying playing rough contact sports does not make you a sociopath. In fact off the competitive field most athletes who are good at contact sports like football, MMA, wrestling, etc are about as far from being sociopaths as you can get. I've been a wrestler and a wrestling coach for about 35 years so I speak from long first hand experience. Had you bothered to speak with anyone actually involved at those sports you'll find that most of them are v
Re: (Score:3)
I see you couldn't address my simple question.
Why doesn't he want to live in Africa, among his own race, and ONLY his own race? Could it possibly be because he is a 'white supremacist', and believes that white people make better societies than blacks do?
Perhaps because most people don't take race into account at all for such positions and economically people tend to be much better off in the US? Afterall if his goal was to live among white people as you suggest then several countries in Europe would be a far more sensible choice.